I also had a phone conversation wth Derek. He said Mum & Ali had decided to reconcile their relationship with Gramps in the 1990s after they ran out of money they received as a financial settlement when they fell out (they were directors of Gramps’s business) in the 1980s He also said that they had made social situations difficult so they ( Sandra & Derek ) hadn’t been as close to Gramps as he’d have liked.
He said that when mum contacted him in January to tell him Gramps died. He told my mum he had a copy of his will to hand. But mum and Alison had arranged another will in 2014 but Gramps’s close friend ( Derek ) hadn’t been told! Very strange.
Adrianne also said she saw a different will as well!